A hand. A penis. That's all that a man needs to engage in fun, friction-filled masturbation (although some lubricant of some kind is generally good to have as well.) But sometimes - especially after a guy has been masturbating for 5, 10, 30 years - he may want to try something a little different for a change. Indulging in some masturbation toys, for example, might add a little spice and a new dimension. But sometimes such toys can be a little pricey, especially if a guy needs to dispose of them so roomies or significant others don't come across them. With that in mind, here are some DIY (do-it-yourself) masturbation devices that guys can make themselves.
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A warning, of course. Take care when making or using these, in order to avoid causing any possible pain or harm to oneself.
- A banana. This is one of the easiest DIY masturbation devices a guy can make. Simply take a banana - ripe or not, it doesn't matter - and remove the fruit from the peel. (One option is to simply peel the banana and remove the fruit; another is to snip off one end of the banana and squeeze the fruit out from the other end.) When the penis is erect, wrap the skin around it and masturbate. It's a little messy, but it feels very exciting.
- Bubble wrap. This doesn't take a lot of material, so bubble wrap from a recently-arrived mailing box may be more than enough. Roll it into a tube into which the penis will fit snugly but comfortably. (The bubbles should be on the inside, so that they are touching the penis.) Once the appropriate size has been determined, tape the tube so that it stays that size. Add a little lube if desired, and masturbate away.
- Paper cup and sponges. Select a cup into which the erect penis will fit comfortably. Select a couple of sponges - preferably new ones. Old, used sponges are likely to contain bacteria and particles that a man really doesn't want on his penis. Wet the new sponges and wring them out several times, until the "newness" has worn off of them. Dampen them again and use them to line the inside of the cup. Fondle the penis until erect, insert and enjoy. (Note: If intending to use the sponges again for masturbation, wash and dry out thoroughly. Do NOT return them to the kitchen sink to use for washing dishes!)
- Electric toothbrush. Handle with care, as one would all electric appliances, of course. The idea here is to utilize a small, handheld toothbrush as a small handheld vibrator. The key here is to (1) make sure the toothbrush has a range of settings and that at least one of them works for the individual using it, and (2) that the bristle portion of the brush is soft enough to provide pleasurable sensations. Assuming these conditions are met, a guy need simply work up a healthy erection, then apply the toothbrush to various parts of the penis; most men find the underside of the penis beneath the head to be especially sensitive to vibrations. It's essential that a person use a toothbrush holder that has removable brushes, so that one can be designated (and set safely aside) for masturbation uses and not mistakenly used thereafter to brush one's teeth.
A DIY masturbation device can be a world of fun, and it will work even better on a penis that's in good shape. For that reason, we urge daily application of a top-notch penis health oil (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil , which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). Look for an oil that contains vitamin B5, also known as pantothenic acid, which aids in cell metabolism and maintaining healthy tissue. Also needed in the oil is vitamin C, a key component of collagen, a tissue in the body that gives skin its tone and elasticity.
One of the most common questions I get about the topic of advanced male chastity is about how desirable is it to have a chastity piercing, such as a Prince Albert, to ensure the security of the device.
The thinking behind it is fairly straightforward: many of the more secure, serious, and thus expensive chastity devices require the man to have a piercing in his penis so the chastity device can be locked into place properly.
Probably the most common combination is a Prince Albert piercing (where the securing pin enters the penis through a hole in the underside of the head and exits through the urethra), but there are devices compatible with frenum and ampallang piercings, too.
So, this raises a couple of questions.
First, why would anyone do this?
Well, the answer to this is simple: it makes the devices much more secure.
Most chastity devices - even full belts - can be escaped by a man who's determined to do so, provided he uses enough lubrication and can endure a little pain.
It's possible there are some devices for which this isn't true but I've yet to come across one.
But a device secured with a piercing is as secure a chastity device as you're ever going to get, simply because the penis is held prisoner with a metal pin actually passing through the flesh.
And the devices' design means there's no way to remove the device without removing the pin first, unless you're willing to tear your own flesh (very few men would want to do this, I'm sure).
And for men serious about long-term and permanent chastity, a secure device is part of the thrill.
There is something about being locked in a secure device that really does turn men on. The feeling of having no control of their own orgasms is intoxicating for them.
Just bear in mind: no chastity device is or ever can be 100% secure, meaning no man is ever kept in a chastity device against his will.
There's no doubt some devices are more secure than others, and it's likely many could only be removed or escaped from with the help of tools.
But the tools required are simple and most men probably have them already lying around in their garage. Moreover, removing the device would be perfectly safe, too, so long as he took care.
Even a device which uses a Donut King E liquid piercing pin to keep the penis secure can be removed simply by cutting the pin (which could be done simply and safely with a pair of tinsnips or wire-cutters, say).
The second reason for the piercing is that for many men and women it's symbolic - and this symbolism is very powerful.
In a large proportion of relationships where they practice male chastity, part of the dynamic is the woman "owns" the man's penis, or at least has all the "rights" concerning it.
In these cases having the penis pierced, whether the man really wants to have it done or not (bearing in mind he always has the choice in reality, and so it's just part of the game) is symbolic of the power-exchange.
Of course, you don't need to be pierced to enjoy chastity, and you don't even need a device.
The idea you do is just another myth propagated by various people who have their own agendas for wanting you to buy into their way of thinking.
My husband, John, was pierced but he never really settled into the device, so we took the piecing out and he currently wears a Lori #2C, which is designed for un-pierced men.
At present he is in long-term orgasm denial and the reason he doesn't escape is he doesn't want to.
Male chastity is really about two people who enjoy whatever dynamic they choose to implement and is just a case of becoming informed about safe, sane and sensible practices.
